When you get into an argument with someone, you need to use this power trump card, “you’re yelling at me”, before the other person uses it. When someone flashes that card, you lose right away.
For example, let’s say you caught this guy stabbing a baby at a park.
you: “oh my god! why are you stabbing that poor baby!!” dude: “oh my god. why are you yelling at me?”
See? you just lost.
Next time, just point out what an asshole that other person is for stabbing a baby then just go straight to “and also why are you yelling at me!”
You need to use that card right the fuck away. If you don’t, the other person wins 10 out of 10. Doesn’t matter who is in the right or wrong. Perception of the other person yelling is the worst sin of all.